The Wedding Garment

ASV Matthew 22:11-14

But when the king came in to behold the guests, he saw a man who had not on a wedding garment. 

 

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Why is this ponderable?

Many prominent Theologians have pondered what the wedding garment symbolizes.  To this day there is no consensus on its purpose in this parable.

• Augustine of Hippo interpreted the garment as symbolizing charity,
• Martin Luther suggested that the garment represented Christ himself.
•  John Calvin felt these controversies in interpreting the meaning of the "wedding garment" was a useless controversy; faith cannot be separated from good works, nor do good works proceed from any other source than from faith.
• James L. Resseguie suggests that the missing wedding garment is an object that supports the plot and the motivation of the characters. It merely reveals the guest's lack of desire to be at this feast.
• Bernard Brandon Scott notes that the parable immediately follows the parable of the Wicked Husbandmen in Matthew, and that the man without a wedding garment represents servants hired by the king (God) who do not perform their duties,i.e. wear proper garments to the feast.

 So we are left to ponder whether Jesus intended it to symbolize anything or merely used it to support the lesson he was teaching. Perhaps the answer lies in how the man responded when he was confronted by the king: he was speechless. In our day he might be compared to a wedding crasher who is caught in the act by the Wedding Host. Depending on the man's reason for crashing the wedding, the Host might throw him out onto the street or invite him to stay for the celebration.

Some of the most common reasons given for crashing weddings include:

• To see a relative or friend get married, even if they are not invited.
• To accompany another person who is invited and wants a companion
• To mooch free catered food or alcoholic beverages.
• To steal money or gifts from the bride, groom, or guests.
• To get revenge, when the bride or groom is an enemy of the person doing the crashing.

The first two reasons are benign and not likely to provoke the harsh reaction by the king in this parable. 

 Then the king said to the ^[f]servants, Bind him hand and foot, and cast him out into the outer darkness; there shall be the weeping and the gnashing of teeth. ¹⁴ For many are called, but few chosen.

So the lack of a  wedding garment was likely used by Jesus to convey the motivation of this mythical wedding crasher. His intentions were evil and had no place in a feast meant to celebrate love and joy. So he was cast out into the darkness to join kindred spirits. He and many like him may have been called into the feast, but only those with pure intentions were selected by the king.